RELIABILITY AND DIFFERENTIATION - permanent conflict HUMAN NEEDS

Certainty and the diversity of the eternal conflict of human needs. On the one hand we want to dominate our lives and direct their course, on the other hand we want diversity, and diversity. We want to know what we will do tomorrow, but we also wish that it was a surprise, and surprise. Is it hard to reconcile this conflict?

Certainty is an elementary human need. By determining the mean mom sure sense of control over the situation / course of events and a sense of security. Without a sense of confidence man is unable to function normally and meet other needs. You explain this problem to an extreme example. You go to the hospital for periodic examination and accidentally doing research on the content in your body of HIV. Although you would not never thought that you may be infected, one fine evening you answer the phone at the clinic, and you find that your doctor asks you to visit in an urgent case. You have come to the clinic the next day at noon. I am sure that there zmrużysz eye this evening. From the beginning you will not worry the whole situation but after some time you will come to a head the worst thoughts. Start gnawing on the question "What if I am infected?" Which in the end you will receive the rest of your inner confidence. What happens then? Will you be able to do anything when you are in a state of complete uncertainty about their future life? I assure you that until you talk with your doctor of internal lack of confidence will prevent the normal functioning of these no matter how much you try to master the fear.